An increasingly typical Sunday morning scene in a part of Dublin: Me, in varying states of dress (either about to enter the shower or just getting out), shouting at the television. Not pretty. Not pretty at all.
This Sunday the object of my wrath was a woman (I didn’t catch her name but I think it was Kathy Gynell) from the Centre for Policy Studies on Sky News (an interlude between Andrew Marr and the Politics Show). Chewing over the papers, she said something along the lines of Samantha Cameron and Lorraine Kelly were examples of ‘nice young women without an ideology’, like this was a good thing. Now, I fondly imagine that both Ms Cameron and Ms Kelly would have something to say about that. I may be wrong.
Now what this representative of the CPS was saying is that women should not have a ‘body of ideas that reflects the beliefs of a nation. political system, class, etc’: ie they shouldn’t think.
Think about the implications of such a statement for a minute.
Now, the CPS is a conservative and Conservative think tank. And it has women ‘experts’. I would imagine that these women probably have what could be called a right-wing, conservative ideology. On having quick scoot round their website, it would appear that all these women have benefited from a decent education; one is the Director. They have just published a pamphlet on ‘What women want’, which perpetuates the myth that if we all went back to a ‘traditional’ family, this would ‘mend’ ‘Broken Britain’ (ie one that is not full of people like them). The truth is that this golden age was only for the middle-classes; those with real money had nannies and sent children to boarding schools, so mothers spent little time either in the kitchen or with their children. This is central to Conservative family policy.
Of course what she probably meant was that they were not feminists, which is just one ‘ideology’. But thanks to women who had such ideologies, and were willing to be outcasts of polite society at best and imprisoned and killed at worst, these women (and all those women who seek to take part in society this way) are able to have an education, to vote, to advise and take part in politics and political parties, to be taken seriously enough to put forward their ideas in the workplace and in the media, while they are waiting for their (in their eyes) ’self-actualisation’ through attracting a husband that is willing and able to provide for them and their children.
To me this was shorthand for saying that women should not think for themselves or seek to exchange or air their views: in short to be seen and not heard. Will the women of the CPS go back to their kitchens and stop thinking? To me, the thought of not thinking, not having an opinion, would be like not breathing. I think and hope most other women are the same.
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Parity Democracy – to quota or not to quota?
October 19, 2009What else to do on a sunny Saturday in Dublin but spend it at the Mansion House with 100+ other women from all over Ireland to talk politics ie life, the universe and everything?
The Labour Women’s National Conference was an inspiring day! Some even used the f-word (yes – feminism).
The theme of the conference was Gender Parity, and the afternoon session was addressed by Senator Ivana Bacik, Joan Burton TD, and Susan McKay, of the NCWI - all incredibly intelligent and knowledgeable women. We were also treated to the thoughts of the also ‘formidable’ Kathleen Lynch TD, for whom I also have a lot of time.
In an attempt to get women into the political process, the Labour Party has instigated a quota system for candidate selection. A few years ago I would have been up in arms about this, believing that women should be selected on their own merits. Admittedly by Saturday morning, for a variety of reasons, I was open to persuasion. By the end of Saturday afternoon, I was fully convinced of its merits!
Ivana summed up the obstacles to women’s participation as culture, childcare, cash, and confidence. Personally, I think the core issue is confidence – everything else can be overcome if you believe in what you are doing. I have been lucky to work with some inspiring women over the years. One in particular has a habit of getting those positions that have been called ‘glass cliffs’ . Unfortunately for the men around her, she has a habit of jumping off with gusto and flying! And the thing that she has in common with all the other women that have held high flying corporate positions, run successful businesses, been senior positions on Boards and vociferously campaigned to give a voice to others in their community or internationally, is that they believe in themselves and their subject: an utter, passionate belief. No-one can put them down, but they are self-aware enough to know their weaknesses (opportunities to grow) and do something about it. Men, in the main (and I know I am guilty of generalising here in the way that men generalise about women) are taught to have self-confidence and belief, and are thought to be ‘ballsy’. Women who have such belief are ‘bolshy’ or, even worse, ‘passionate’ (for which read ‘hysterical’). But, sticks and stones, and all that….
I think the mentoring system that the Labour Party in Ireland have established, and are to develop is inspired, and one way to ensure that those who are selected at least have the level playing field of confidence. If a quota system ensures that more, and a more diverse range of. women get the opportunity to put this confidence into practice they will be inspirational beacons for those that come after them.
But the last comment has to go to Sinead Ni Chulachain, outgoing Chair of Labour Women, who, to paraphrase, summed it up: people have been selected on a number of criteria, not all to do with their politics; have you ever seen a man turn down something because he thought a woman was better qualified?
Addition (20/10/09): Over back in Blighty, the issue of increasing diversity in Westminster was discussed today at a Speakers’ Conference with all three leaders of the main parties saying they are going to work to increase the diversity of selection and participation (http://www.parliamentlive.tv/Main/Player.aspx?meetingId=4868).